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		<title>By: Paul Roberts</title>
		<link>http://blog.ephlux.com/index.php/2010/07/recruiting-members-of-the-same-family/comment-page-1/#comment-45425</link>
		<dc:creator>Paul Roberts</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 09 Aug 2010 07:20:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>There are very successful companies such as Marks and Spencer and John Lewis that actively recruit family. As the darlings of the stock market is this one policy they have right - I believe so!
I employ my family and would employ more if the situation arises. The honesty and commitment is beyond doubt and the team is stronger as a result.
Around 80% of firms with less than 10 employees are family owned and run.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>There are very successful companies such as Marks and Spencer and John Lewis that actively recruit family. As the darlings of the stock market is this one policy they have right &#8211; I believe so!<br />
I employ my family and would employ more if the situation arises. The honesty and commitment is beyond doubt and the team is stronger as a result.<br />
Around 80% of firms with less than 10 employees are family owned and run.</p>
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		<title>By: Heidi Titchenal</title>
		<link>http://blog.ephlux.com/index.php/2010/07/recruiting-members-of-the-same-family/comment-page-1/#comment-45424</link>
		<dc:creator>Heidi Titchenal</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 09 Aug 2010 07:20:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Sometimes I need extra manpower on a project. If it is short duration I just pull in a family member. If I use my husband, he tends to take over. If I use one of my children we have issues to work through that are similar to the parent/child issues we deal with at home. When I use both of my kids I&#039;ve noticed that they make a great team.

My husband works with a pair of siblings and they also make a great team.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sometimes I need extra manpower on a project. If it is short duration I just pull in a family member. If I use my husband, he tends to take over. If I use one of my children we have issues to work through that are similar to the parent/child issues we deal with at home. When I use both of my kids I&#8217;ve noticed that they make a great team.</p>
<p>My husband works with a pair of siblings and they also make a great team.</p>
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		<title>By: Chris Barton</title>
		<link>http://blog.ephlux.com/index.php/2010/07/recruiting-members-of-the-same-family/comment-page-1/#comment-45423</link>
		<dc:creator>Chris Barton</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 09 Aug 2010 07:19:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hiring is an objective process.

You hire people based on their ability, expertise, professionalism and potential, if a member of your family falls into this category and there is not a better candidate, then hire them.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hiring is an objective process.</p>
<p>You hire people based on their ability, expertise, professionalism and potential, if a member of your family falls into this category and there is not a better candidate, then hire them.</p>
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		<title>By: Simon Hamer</title>
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		<dc:creator>Simon Hamer</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 09 Aug 2010 07:19:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;m proof it is OK.

In years gone by, I met and married my wife in a High Street Bank in the UK.
Not only did it mean I was happier at work, my work was checked more carefully as it was typed.

The real key to making it successful is whether or not the people concerned are collaborators or competitors. We chose to collaborate and were always fiercely loyal to our then employers {shame they could not have been like us} and as such the work done by us was at a better level.

If however we were intensely competitive in nature, recruiting us in an organisation / department could have created unnecessary time wasting or needless undermining of each others efforts.

Summary, depends on personality traits.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m proof it is OK.</p>
<p>In years gone by, I met and married my wife in a High Street Bank in the UK.<br />
Not only did it mean I was happier at work, my work was checked more carefully as it was typed.</p>
<p>The real key to making it successful is whether or not the people concerned are collaborators or competitors. We chose to collaborate and were always fiercely loyal to our then employers {shame they could not have been like us} and as such the work done by us was at a better level.</p>
<p>If however we were intensely competitive in nature, recruiting us in an organisation / department could have created unnecessary time wasting or needless undermining of each others efforts.</p>
<p>Summary, depends on personality traits.</p>
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		<title>By: dayanand guddin</title>
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		<dc:creator>dayanand guddin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 09 Aug 2010 07:18:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi,

I had some intersting experiences on this.

a) In one of the old foundry where I worked (established in 1960&#039;s) since they did not get the manpower during the initial period, the managment recruited people not only form one family but many of them from same familiy and the same village. The effect used to be disastrous during the death of any family member and marriages. Absenteism used to be 75% !!

2) While encouraging employment of children of employees in an engineering company it so hapened that the son with a graduation in engineering was placed as a supervisor of the shop where in his father had to work under him as a assembly workman. Son giving daliy work insructions to father!!! Used to be a joke and it was difficult as the Son was specifically chosen for the position beacuse of his qualification and experience in the assembly!!

The PROs are the reduction in attrition and the same is a double edged sword with instances of both members being compelled to seek out.

Also just by the human tendancy it creates a kind of inconvenience to know if the spouse are workingin the same unit / department.

Kind regards

Dayanand L Guddin</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi,</p>
<p>I had some intersting experiences on this.</p>
<p>a) In one of the old foundry where I worked (established in 1960&#8242;s) since they did not get the manpower during the initial period, the managment recruited people not only form one family but many of them from same familiy and the same village. The effect used to be disastrous during the death of any family member and marriages. Absenteism used to be 75% !!</p>
<p>2) While encouraging employment of children of employees in an engineering company it so hapened that the son with a graduation in engineering was placed as a supervisor of the shop where in his father had to work under him as a assembly workman. Son giving daliy work insructions to father!!! Used to be a joke and it was difficult as the Son was specifically chosen for the position beacuse of his qualification and experience in the assembly!!</p>
<p>The PROs are the reduction in attrition and the same is a double edged sword with instances of both members being compelled to seek out.</p>
<p>Also just by the human tendancy it creates a kind of inconvenience to know if the spouse are workingin the same unit / department.</p>
<p>Kind regards</p>
<p>Dayanand L Guddin</p>
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		<title>By: Neil Aremband</title>
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		<dc:creator>Neil Aremband</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 09 Aug 2010 07:18:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I think the &#039;pros&#039; include more loyalty and enthusiasm amongst the family members. It will also encourage more open discussion between them, especially if they work for the same company.

The main &#039;con&#039; I foresee is family rivalry, where one member of a family may have a better or &#039;higher&#039; position than another. This could lead to friction and cause dissent amongst the family members.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think the &#8216;pros&#8217; include more loyalty and enthusiasm amongst the family members. It will also encourage more open discussion between them, especially if they work for the same company.</p>
<p>The main &#8216;con&#8217; I foresee is family rivalry, where one member of a family may have a better or &#8216;higher&#8217; position than another. This could lead to friction and cause dissent amongst the family members.</p>
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		<title>By: Thamir Ghaslan</title>
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		<dc:creator>Thamir Ghaslan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 09 Aug 2010 07:17:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Tricky question and and subjective based on culture.

Short answer: OK in the middle east, not OK in the west.

Now an attempt at a long answer why its perceived as more of a pro from a middle eastern perspective.

PRO: Loyalty.
CON: Hiring is not merit based and there is no aspiration to move up because positions are reserved for family members.

Big capital family run businesses are plentiful in the middle east, and make the bulk of the private sector, and a lot are reluctant to turn public through IPOs, many that went public performed worst then when they were privately held family run.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Tricky question and and subjective based on culture.</p>
<p>Short answer: OK in the middle east, not OK in the west.</p>
<p>Now an attempt at a long answer why its perceived as more of a pro from a middle eastern perspective.</p>
<p>PRO: Loyalty.<br />
CON: Hiring is not merit based and there is no aspiration to move up because positions are reserved for family members.</p>
<p>Big capital family run businesses are plentiful in the middle east, and make the bulk of the private sector, and a lot are reluctant to turn public through IPOs, many that went public performed worst then when they were privately held family run.</p>
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		<title>By: Zohaib Hisam</title>
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		<dc:creator>Zohaib Hisam</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 09 Aug 2010 07:16:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>The most effective, organized &#039;corporations&#039; are crime cartels/mafia, and they recruit &#039;family&#039; through n through :P

Seriously though, it doesn&#039;t work. Family is one thing, business is another. Very few people have the capability to interact with the same person on two different relationship levels, without carrying over bias from one interaction level to the other.

e.g. husband and wife working together would (normally) spend more time arguing about trivial matters - like the husband looking at a female colleague for too long, or the wife smiling too much at a client during lunch. Similarly, siblings sometimes carry over their living room rivalries into work, which can hardly prove to be productive. All this leaves very little time for actual work ( these examples are kinda exaggerated, but you get the picture).

z</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The most effective, organized &#8216;corporations&#8217; are crime cartels/mafia, and they recruit &#8216;family&#8217; through n through <img src='http://blog.ephlux.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_razz.gif' alt=':P' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>Seriously though, it doesn&#8217;t work. Family is one thing, business is another. Very few people have the capability to interact with the same person on two different relationship levels, without carrying over bias from one interaction level to the other.</p>
<p>e.g. husband and wife working together would (normally) spend more time arguing about trivial matters &#8211; like the husband looking at a female colleague for too long, or the wife smiling too much at a client during lunch. Similarly, siblings sometimes carry over their living room rivalries into work, which can hardly prove to be productive. All this leaves very little time for actual work ( these examples are kinda exaggerated, but you get the picture).</p>
<p>z</p>
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		<title>By: Frank Graziano</title>
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		<dc:creator>Frank Graziano</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 09 Aug 2010 07:10:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I actually had the opportunity to be involved with this same situation in one of my past management positions. During the time I was taking over as Manager, I inherited two employees who were then just dating and thinking of getting married. The mistake I made was allowing them to be part of my same team. Six months later they did marry and we continued allowing them on the same team. It became my worst nightmare ever! If I would have to correct performance issues with one, then the other got involved as well. All this to say I would NEVER allow family members to be on the same team. I don&#039;t see as much of an issue if family members work for the same company as long as they are not in the same department or under the same leadership.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I actually had the opportunity to be involved with this same situation in one of my past management positions. During the time I was taking over as Manager, I inherited two employees who were then just dating and thinking of getting married. The mistake I made was allowing them to be part of my same team. Six months later they did marry and we continued allowing them on the same team. It became my worst nightmare ever! If I would have to correct performance issues with one, then the other got involved as well. All this to say I would NEVER allow family members to be on the same team. I don&#8217;t see as much of an issue if family members work for the same company as long as they are not in the same department or under the same leadership.</p>
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		<title>By: Suresh Venkata</title>
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		<dc:creator>Suresh Venkata</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 09 Aug 2010 07:08:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Having spouses &amp; relatives working in the same team or department may lead to many conflicts both personally &amp; professionally, I won&#039;t personally recommend such a situation. however it won&#039;t be of any concern if the organization is huge and their is enough room for them to work in different departments which does not share any common interest.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Having spouses &amp; relatives working in the same team or department may lead to many conflicts both personally &amp; professionally, I won&#8217;t personally recommend such a situation. however it won&#8217;t be of any concern if the organization is huge and their is enough room for them to work in different departments which does not share any common interest.</p>
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